the tell tale sign that he’s all in, he’s committed. Maybe you don’t meet them right away, but he should give you come sort of indication that it’s on the horizon.
I’ve experienced those gut-twisting feelings, the ones the leave you with a constant sense of impending doom in the pit of your stomach causing you to question everything, including yourself. I mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a man who never intended to keep you around for the long haul.
With regards to knowing if he’s really serious about having a relationship with you, what can we do to spare ourselves the time, energy, and heartbreak that goes into determining how a man feels?
After giving this topic a lot of thought and consulting with several guys, I’ve uncovered five tell-tale signs that he isn’t going to commit to you now or ever. You don’t know anything real about him You can talk to someone for hours and hours every day and not know anything real about them.
You might know details about their life, but you don’t know who they are, their real and true self that exists beneath all the superficial fluff.
The ugly truth is this: when a guy says he doesn’t want a relationship, what he’s really saying is he doesn’t want a relationship with You’re like every other girl in a non-relationship.
You’re a great girl who maybe sold herself a little short and is in a situation where the guy calls all the shots and is just taking you along for the ride as you sit patiently in the back seat, waiting for him to decide you’re “good enough.” If he tells you he doesn’t wan to be in a relationship, or he has “commitment issues” or hates labels, just take it at face value and do yourself a favor and move on. He doesn’t take you on real dates If your dates consist of you going over to his place and watching a movie or you cooking for him, then he isn’t taking you or the relationship very seriously.
He’ll be excited, and maybe a little nervous about you meeting them because he really wants them to like you, and for you to like them.
If he doesn’t really seem to care, then even if he does introduce you to them it’s a sign he isn’t fully invested in having a future with you.
If you’re the only one making the effort to keep the spark alive and do special things, it’s a sign that he isn’t very invested in you. He won’t introduce you to his family A lot of women make the mistake of thinking that meeting a guy’s friends is a big deal.