Of course, there’s something romantic, alluring and even reassuring about dating a man who’s quite a bit older than you.These men tend to be way more well-established and courteous, they’re chivalrous and you’ll never hear the words, “let’s hang out” ever again.In fact, it is exactly what make these men so focused in pursuing their significant other that can make them equally as intentional and focused when it comes to planning for and talking about a serious relationship and its future.
When a younger woman finds the right older man for her, these foundations can make for a soulmate type of love match.
Younger women drawn to older men bring a lot of youth, vibrance and vitality to the relationship.
An older man and younger woman relationship is not only one of the most common motifs in dating, it’s also one of the most popular.
Dating older men can be an experience unto itself and comes with perks you may have never imagined before.
If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways.
And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself.
I grew up the only child of older parents (who are also 10 years apart), and often felt like an awkward old lady trapped inside a teeny-bopper’s body. I admit, I wasn’t as physically attracted to him as I had been to other partners. Have you ever seen a girl with a hideous boyfriend and thought, “Seriously, how the f$*k did he pull that off? Either he's just a nice friggin’ dude; or being with him boosts her self-confidence. In my case, the age gap was actually a cavernous black hole defying space and time. He’s old and sick now, and she takes care of him (even financially), but she’s still partying and sleeping around. I sometimes imagine what would have happened if I had stayed with my older man.
The last I heard, my older ex was in a tumultuous relationship with another 20-something, this time a singer reminiscent of Björk.
That was my experience from dating a much older man.