I will say however that if you have recently found yourself single, give yourself some time before jumping back on the dating bandwagon.
You won’t be in the right state of mind to be making important emotional decisions.
Now for this article I won’t go into the basics of dating and meeting people because I’m sure many of you are probably better at this then me.
” Take those studies, surveys and polls and throw them in the garbage! And on top of that, some might have had a bad experience or unpleasant memories of spanking from when they were a child.
This does not automatically disqualify a person from being a potential partner, and I will give a few examples. One of the only vegetables I liked as a kid were potatoes and that was pretty much it.
It wasn’t until I was in my early teens when I came across an adult book called, Forum published by the world famous Penthouse magazine, that I began to realized there were others out there like me.
Although it was a little comforting to know I was not the only one with these desires, I still felt just as alone knowing there was no one I could talk to regarding this subject without the risk of mockery or someone thinking I was bat-shit crazy.
Many people do the same thing when in comes to being attracted to a person.
You either are or your not, and it’s not something you can fake.
I never knew why I had these feelings and desires, and I grew up like many of you did, feeling there was something wrong with me or worse, feeling I was alone and possibly the only person on this planet that had this fetish..
although back then I had no idea what a fetish was.
She likes to have fun Likes to try new and interesting things Likes to laugh Spontaneous Easy going A fan of comedies Very open with communication Doesn’t take herself too seriously Has no problems expressing her feelings Is comfortable with herself and her body These are all “yes” signals when it comes to spanking.