I wanted to be a girl who was wanted and desired like my sisters. Of course the rules get harder to follow when you leave home and alcohol, and clubs, and bars are suddenly thrown into your life mix. (I will spread my legs for anyone with a good set of eyelashes.)We met at a faceless bar on Santa Monica Boulevard and somehow ended up in a heated discussion about our mutual love of the smashing pumpkins -- I believe I recited all of the lyrics to "Zero," (Emptiness is loneliness, and loneliness is cleanliness, and cleanliness is godliness, and GOD IS EMPTY JUST LIKE ME! I drank cosmopolitans because I was too young to know it wasn't cool to drink cosmopolitans. He just pounded himself inside me, and BAM, it was over in five minutes.
No one ever told me how different life is when you leave your parents house and enter a new world where the good ol' bad decision-making-power of booze plays such a HUGE factor. The next thing I knew, I was in his smelly bedroom at his sh*thole apartment in Venice Beach. I woke up at 8 am the sunlight penetrating through his curtain-less windows, his naked back to me. It was full of filthy socks, and dirty weed, and half-drank beer bottles.
Don't have sex with a person if you can't handle him or her spending the night. However, you're not obligated to have breakfast together. No matter how textbook "pretty" she is or how clean cut his dweeby sweater is -- it doesn't mean he or she isn't riddled with a laundry list of STDS.
If he or she wants to leave -- that's totally fine. Just lie if they suggest breakfast and you're not feeling it. And there is no morning-after pill for an STD, babes.
In high school, I vowed to never have a one-night stand. " I would prudishly show off to all the skater boys I sat with at lunch.
Even though I was a closet lesbian, I still wanted all of them to want me.
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Women are much better at one-night stand etiquette. There are definitely a few lesbian f*ckgirls who are sh*tty at it too.)If you're going to have a one-night stand and want to make it a pleasant experience, you need to follow these three simple rules. You can't help but feel cheap when there are dirty dishes everywhere. The whole reason my apartment is always looking so fierce and clean is because I want it to look good in case I meet a hot girl and decide to bring her home.
There is nothing worse than going home with a person (guy, girl, whatever! You're already going to feel vulnerable after a one-night stand. I don't want to bring someone home and have her wake up feeling horrible because she's in a wildly disorganized mess. When she wakes up from a one-night and opens her eyes to a beautiful apartment with fresh flowers that smells like Windex and incense, she'll feel empowered. GOOD FOR ME."You always want your one-night stand to leave your apartment feeling empowered."So, I f*cked this guy, and afterward, he was like 'You should probably leave because we're just f*cking,'" my friend Marissa* lamented during our mid-week wine/bitch session. Just because it's "casual sex" doesn't mean it isn't still SEX.
Drive them nuts, and then, when they're about to explode, you can have sex with them," she would dutifully lecture me as she sipped on her pre-date "personality drink" of vodka and crystal light ("less calories" she would say, as she mixed coral-colored powder into her cocktail)."Us Barrie girls don't do one-night stands," my mother would instruct me when I asked her what the rules were about sex, her posh English accent loudly emphasizing "Barrie Girls" for dramatic effect. I was taught that a woman's sexuality is the most powerful thing in the world, and you should use it to get what you want.
I know, sweet kittens, a twisted and a dated mentality, but I didn't grow up with sex-positive feminism like some girls did.
A controversial new dating app that encourages men to offer women gifts to go on dates with them has been slammed as sexist.