Two, they don’t want to get serious but want the other benefits of dating.
Let them know what you’re looking for and pull back a bit.
Why bend over backwards to make someone you barely know happy? A prime example of this is a guy who brings a girl flowers on the first date.
Dating Tips and Q&A with Yours Truly I wrote the first version of this article in 2012, and since then I’ve gotten hundreds of emails and comments asking about what to do in certain situations.
Here are the most common questions and my answers to each.
If it’s “to get to know someone”, you’ll probably seem interview-ish. People like being around fun, low-pressure people with no expectations.
The best way to look at a date is a chance to have fun. As things progress, that’s when you get to know each other.
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When you go on a date, what do you think the purpose is?If you drift apart, you know they were never going to commit and you saved yourself time, trouble, and heart ache.Q: My date says it’s just casual, but acts like it’s serious?If you emotionally vomit on someone and spill your whole life story during the first three dates, where’s the fun in that?It’s like telling someone what’s in the present they’re about to unwrap. Focus on having fun, enjoy the mystery, and going from casual to serious will happen naturally.Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.