Generally speaking, when married women wants you for lover you will be her lover, but convince her that you are THE guy, the she do not need even to think that you will make any problems with her marriage, show that you are discreet and that you accept all rules she asks, simply show her that she will get what she is looking for.
Best places to find them : at work, clubs, pubs, vacations (beaches), street, library, bookstore, coffee shops( especially on friday nights) , but they are also hardest-to-find group, due to nature of marriage: they do not go out at Friday and Saturday night J When you meet married women, it is very important NOT to rush, let them to lead a game.
They don’t want to risk their marriage and to get into affair, such kind of older and younger females need to be sure that you are nice and decent guy / man, who will not fail in love and try to ruin their marriage, so with married women, just go slowly and respect their wishes, time schedule and everything else.
Women are just like men: they want some excitement, adventure and sex, but they usually are not so direct as males are.
No matter are they single, married, divorced, older or younger, they have same (sex) needs as we males do, simply looking for sex as males but just do that on bit different way.
Best places to find them : beach (summer time), internet sites, chats and forums, clubs, college, every other place where young people going out Older, but single (or divorced) women, can give you most pleasure when it comes to adventure or just sex: they are experienced, they know a lot about sex, they always seeking for new pleasures since they have in mind time that clocking against them and they are usually very good looking women!
With this group of females it is very easy to hookup in case they like you, in case that specified women don’t like you, then is better to proceed to next one.
I don't know why this works with both girls and women, but it works.#3 - Be generous!
No matter that mostly of women today insist to pay own part of dinner or whatever, don't try to argue with her, simply pay everything and give waiter a (nice) tip in front of her.
Many girls will argue with you after such gesture, but act as you don't care and in first next situation do the same.
Like previous thing, I don't know WHY but this works for whole my life, with both older and younger women.
Easiest group to find and seduce and get in bed: they go out a lot, they very actively look for men and they want some fun in their life.