We’re disappointed in real life when the person doesn’t measure up to expectations because we feel deceived, if we had known they were short or fat or republican when we didn’t want a short fat republican we could have saved both parties the time.It’s not that women don’t like short guys (or fat guys, or bald guys etc), it’s that we don’t like being lied to—and the false representation on dating profiles is exactly that.
Naturally, Hollywood is not as in love with equally charming fat women with skinny, sexy spouses. In these shows, the beautiful, skinny wife sees the husband for who he is, and she's able to look past the fat part because of his amazing heart and fabulous sense of humor.
He is not a burden to her, and she is incredibly happy to be with him.
But fat women are considered burdens, embarrassing, gross, disgusting, lazy and ugly.
Every undesirable fat stereotype is laid on top of that like pepperoni on a pizza.
Pictures can indeed say 1000 words, that’s why I always swipe left on certain ones. To me they indicate that the person doesn’t really care about life, as in, the life of other creatures on the planet; the person thinks that by offering the pic, he’s proving his ability to provide, in a very subconscious caveman sort of way; and that basically, he’s a basic bro.
Or, what my friend has recently termed, “the domestic dick.” But that’s just my opinion; there are plenty of people out there who like those pics as there are people who don’t—and that’s the beauty of online dating in our current time period.
But fat girls shouldn't have to settle for just sex when they want more because they feel it's all they're going to get.
Fat ladies should also not be denied the option of more because men feel as if they are doing them the holy grail of grand gestures by just poking them with their penises.
I don’t know if there’s really “someone for everyone,” but there are a ton of people on the earth so it’s very likely. Register with Meet Mindful for free today—the fastest growing dating site for conscious singles.