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And while I applaud the sentiment and hope good men will take Josh up on his challenge, I think an additional exhortation is in order: Catholic men, please be smart daters.
Please don't think us ladies expect you to be perfect at dating - we certainly aren't - but it might be helpful to be aware of some of the pitfalls or problems that can crop up.
We know that the church isn't the most popular source for relationship advice among young adults today.
But the church does have a lot to say about the matter—and believe it or not, it's not all about sin.
They're mostly common sense but there can often be a deficiency of common sense when the opposite sex is concerned.
Here are 4 common Catholic dating problems, with advice on how to navigate them: (1) The Problem: Catholic circles are small This has many positive aspects, but also lends to a common problem: if you ask a bunch of girls out, you'll end up dating girls who are close friends or roommates and...can get awkward. The Solution: Do ask girls you are interested in out, but don't go so far as to be a serial dater.
In my circles, the topic of Catholic dating comes up regularly or, more specifically, the topic of why there is often a lack of dating among young Catholics.
Everyone's an expert on where the blame should be placed: the hook-up culture, the hang-out culture, the so-called 'friend-zone', feminism, men being wimps, women taking the initiative instead, discernment dragging on, and the list continues.
You'll inadvertently get a reputation as someone who's not serious and might leave a trail of disappointed girls in your wake - and girls do talk to other girls, for better or for worse.
Be sensitive to the fact that close circles can result in high drama when eligible young men are concerned, so you might need to do pre-emptive damage control if things don't work out with one roommate and you decide to date the second.
And - this is a personal pet peeve - do not play dumb if she turns you down.